The Handbook for Creating Ordinary Relationships
"If we continue to believe as we have always believed, we will continue to act as we have always acted. If we continue to act as we have always acted, we will continue to get what we have always gotten."
- Marilyn Ferguson
author of Aquarian Conspiracy
122 Ways - The Handbook For Creating Ordinary Human Relationship
Here are 122 specific instructions and practices for how to start, grow and end Ordinary Human Relationship. Study them carefully to improve your Ordinary Human Relationship Intelligence.
WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT IT?
To make best use of this list, read it carefully and slowly once a week for three months.
Each time you read the list new insights will reveal themselves.
Let each insight bubble up slowly into your experience and destroy your world.
Take the time to let each realization hit you with the full intensity of its shocking message, which is that: Something completely different from this is possible right now.
People do not change until it hurts too much to keep doing things the old way. It may feel counterintuitive but if you want to change, then let it hurt intensely.
The above listed behaviors and attitudes are neither good nor bad. The above list is valuable because it allows you to acquire a more precise “X” for locating where you are on the Map Of Three Kinds Of Relationship (ordinary, extraordinary, and archetypal) in each moment.
When you are enacting to any degree even one of the above listed behaviors, then you prove your commitment (no matter what else you might be thinking) to creating Ordinary Human Relationship.
This is your “X” on the map.
Study this list until you are nauseated.
Study it in a weekly meeting group.
Study it with an online team.
As painful as it might be, studying the Handbook For Creating Ordinary Human Relationship gives you intellectual and emotional reference points which you can use for the rest of your life.
These guidelines and hints help you detect what you are actually up to when your mind may be telling you that you are up to something very different.
Knowing what you are actually up to is Clarity in action.
Clarity provides alternative options in that exact moment when you can take a different action.
Such options are priceless.
The point is, if you do not know with accuracy what you are doing in this moment then you will have little success trying to do something different in the next moment. (Review the Marilyn Ferguson quote at the top of this website...)
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